THE MARRY MEN* believe the most important part of your wedding day is the ceremony and we are committed to making this meaningful and memorable for you, your family, and your invited guests.
As individuals with extensive theatre backgrounds, we know all about storytelling. Your wedding ceremony is our opportunity to tell your story.
As trained actors, broadcasters, educators, event planners, and public speakers, we can help you craft the perfect words and coach you in delivering the most important performance of your life. We can also guide your family and friends in formulating unforgettable speeches.
As your officiants, we like to work closely with you to create a customized ceremony that celebrates your unique relationship.
During our initial meeting, we will discuss what it is you are looking for in a ceremony. We will recommend a ceremony that is based on an expression of love, union, and commitment.
The content of your ceremony can be traditional, contemporary, or a combination of these.
You may include poetry, prose, lyrics, or readings into the ceremony that can be presented by the Officiant, a friend, or a member of your family.
We can also incorporate other customs and traditions into your ceremony to best reflect you and your families. Some examples include unity candles, the blending of sand, breaking of glass, presentation of bread and salt, hand fasting, etc.
We’re in the “forever” business.
Jason and Michael will create a memorable and heartfelt experience for you and your wedding guests that you will cherish forever. Whatever you decide, we are happy to collaborate with you to make your wedding ceremony exactly what you’re looking for.
The Marry Men offer a simple and convenient online booking process, and Jason and Michael make planning your wedding ceremony an enjoyable experience.
EACH STANDARD WEDDING CEREMONY PACKAGE INCLUDES THE FOLLOWING:
Initial Consultation
The Marry Men are in the relationship business and offer a free, no-obligation consultation to determine if there is a genuine connection between you and us. We’re confident there will be. We will conduct these initial consultations via Skype, FaceTime, Zoom, or by phone. We will hold your wedding date for 5 business days, so you will have enough time to speak with us and make a decision that best suits your needs.
The Couple’s Questionnaire
Once you’ve signed your contract and paid the 50% deposit, Jason and Michael will direct you to The Marry Men Couple’s Questionnaire to learn more about you as individuals, about your relationship, and your journey to one another. We ask our couples to complete the questionnaires individually in order to provide a different perspectives on the journey you are taking. The information you provide in your responses will help to inform the customization of your wedding ceremony that is just for you.
Ceremony WRITING
Following our planning meeting, Jason and Michael will customize a ceremony script. The Marry Men take pride in crafting meaningful and memorable ceremonies that reflect the couple and their journey. We will work closely with you to create the perfect ceremony that incorporates all the required elements and any unity rituals you have decided on, but also includes a mix of humour, intimacy, personal sentiments shared by you, and our signature Marry Men touch. We stand by our words and our commitment to telling your story.
OFFICIATING The Ceremony
Jason or Michael will arrive at your wedding venue early (usually 60 minutes prior to the ceremony) to communicate with your wedding party and coordinate with vendors so everyone is ready for the start of the ceremony. With over twenty years of event-planning experience, Jason and Michael are equipped and perfectly comfortable in navigating the many details of your wedding day. (i.e. wedding planners, photographers, videographers, caterers, DJs, etc.)
The Marriage LicenSe
Although it’s your responsibility to get the marriage licence before the wedding, The Marry Men will take care of signing it afterwards and filing it with the proper office. You will receive a Record of Solemnization of your marriage for your records. You will need to contact the office of the Registrar General directly to order a copy of your Marriage Certificate. Consult our Marriage Licence 4-1-1 here.
Additional service offered with our Show-Stopper Ceremony:
JaM Session™ Planning Meeting
If you have chosen The Marry Men to show-stop your wedding (see Packages), Jason and Michael will be in touch to schedule a signature JaM Session™ planning meeting to review all the elements of your ceremony. This meeting normally happens in-person, but it can also be done via video or phone call. We will also consult with you regarding the specific colours and themes you have selected for your celebration, so we can coordinate our aesthetic to meet yours.
*Jason and Michael are ordained CIMM ministers and licensed religious officiants with The Province of Ontario.
Let us tell your story!