YOUR CEREMONY SCRIPT
You may know what type of ceremony appeals to you, but it’s completely normal to be unsure about how you want to phrase the words of your ceremony.
Your wedding ceremony script helps to set the tone for your wedding day and for your marriage.
It’s an opportunity to express your love and commitment in a way that feels natural to both of you.
Many couples like to personalize some or all of their ceremony script because they want to feel deeply connected to the words they say and the promises they make.
VOWS, SPEECHES, and TOASTS
Wedding vows, speeches, and toasts are all about storytelling. Your story as individuals, as a couple, a father, a mother, a maid of honour, or a best man is unique and personal. Whether you lead with humour or say it with love, an anecdote or a love note, the words you speak on your wedding day will resonate forever. Remember, The Marry Men are in the “forever” business.
Our overall approach as Vow Coaches and Officiants is to orchestrate the spoken word from beginning to end: The ceremony, the vows, readings, poems, speeches, and toasts. Jason and Michael are trained actors and public speakers and will help you craft the perfect words and coach you in delivering the most important performance of your life.
Our services are always customized to fit your needs and preferences: in-person, virtual, and on-site.
All our ceremonies are created to reflect the unique personalities and beliefs of the couple.
We can attend rehearsals and weddings, be there for last-minute run-throughs, and preparations, or simply calm the nerves. Remember, we’ve “been there, done that” and are happy to help.
“We are all stories in the end.
just make it a good one, eh?”
― Doctor Who
HERE’S HOW WE CAN HELP:
(*additional costs may apply)
- Meetings with the couple, together and separately
- Work collaboratively to put pen to paper
- Write, revise, and review your vows
- Public speaking and delivery coaching
- Lessons in elocution (pronunciation/articulation), breathing, posture, body language
- On-site or virtual support day of the wedding
- Assist family/ friends with the writing and delivery of tasteful and meaningful speeches and toasts
- Edits and practice sessions
- Last minute help
THE MARRY MEN OFFICIANT SERVICES
‣ Customized and personalized ceremony planning
‣ Full ceremonies, short & sweet boutique weddings, marriage license signings
‣ Last minute help with preparation and rehearsal of vows, readings, and speeches (optional)
LAND ACKNOWLEDGMENT
The Marry Men are committed to fostering inclusivity and respect for Indigenous communities. As part of our dedication to honor the diverse cultures and histories that shape our world, we are pleased to offer a land acknowledgement at your ceremony upon request. This serves as a meaningful gesture to recognize and pay tribute to the Indigenous peoples on whose traditional lands we gather.
Land Acknowledgment Statement
We would like to begin by acknowledging that the land on which we gather is the traditional territory of many Indigenous nations. We recognize and honor the original caretakers of this land, including the Haudenosaunee, the Wendat, the Anishinaabe, and the Mississauga’s of the Credit First Nation.
For generations, these Indigenous peoples have lived and cared for this land we now call home. We pay respect to their elders, both past and present, and extend our gratitude for their ongoing stewardship.
We acknowledge that the process of colonization and settler colonialism has caused great harm and continues to impact Indigenous communities. We are committed to learning from the wisdom and resilience of Indigenous peoples and to supporting efforts for truth, healing, and reconciliation.
As guests on this land, we recognize our responsibility to engage in ongoing efforts to listen, learn, and work towards building respectful and equitable relationships with Indigenous communities. We commit to advocating for Indigenous rights, supporting Indigenous-led initiatives, and amplifying Indigenous voices.
May we walk on this land with humility, acknowledging the deep history and ongoing presence of Indigenous peoples, and working towards a future of justice, understanding, and collaboration.
OTHER SERVICES*
Getting married is one important moment on life’s journey.
There will be others, and The Marry Men want to join you.
Ask us about our customized services for:
- *NEW* GoodMournings by The Marry Men
- Funerals
- Celebration of Life
- Pet Memorials
*These ceremonies are personalized for all families in a location that best suits your needs. We are here to listen to you and honour your loved ones.
For all inquiries, please do not hesitate to reach out to us.