Pet-Friendly Weddings: Saying ‘I Do’ With Your Furry Best Friend
There’s something truly special about including your beloved pet in your wedding day. After all, they’ve been by your side through life’s biggest moments—why shouldn’t they be there as you say “I do”? From walking down the aisle as a ring bearer to sitting front row in an adorable tuxedo, pets are becoming a cherished part of wedding ceremonies. If you’re considering a pet-friendly wedding, here’s everything you need to know to make your big day unforgettable for both you and your furry friend.
Why Include Your Pet in Your Wedding?
For many couples, pets are more than just animals; they’re family. Including them in your wedding is a beautiful way to honour that bond and make your special day even more meaningful. Pets bring joy, comfort, and an extra dose of love to your ceremony. Plus, let’s be honest—nothing gets a bigger “aww” from guests than a pup trotting down the aisle with a flower garland or a cat curled up on a seat, taking in the festivities.
Ways to Include Your Pet in Your Wedding
There are plenty of creative ways to involve your furry companion, whether they take centre stage or play a subtle role. Here are a few fun ideas:
Ring Bearer or Flower Pet
Attach the rings to their collar (securely!) or have them walk down the aisle with a handler carrying a floral-adorned leash.
Wedding Party Member
Give them an official title like “Best Dog,” “Dog of Honour,” or “Paw-smaid.” Dress them up in a bow tie, floral collar, or tiny tuxedo.
Guest of Honour
If your pet prefers a more relaxed role, simply have them sit with a trusted guest in the front row, enjoying the ceremony.
Pet-Inspired Wedding Décor
Name signature cocktails after them (e.g., “Milo’s Mule” or “Luna’s Lemonade”).
Use paw prints in your stationery, cake toppers, or seating charts.
Wedding Photos & First Look
Include them in your wedding portraits for adorable and sentimental photos.
Have a private “first look” moment with your pet before walking down the aisle.
Pet-Inspired Wedding Favours
Send guests home with customized pet treats, paw-print cookies, or donations to an animal shelter in your pet’s name.
Things to Consider When Having a Pet-Friendly Wedding
While the idea of having your pet at your wedding is heartwarming, there are a few practical things to keep in mind to ensure a stress-free experience for both you and your furry friend.
Check the Venue’s Pet Policy
Not all venues allow pets, so before making any plans, confirm with your wedding venue if animals are permitted. Outdoor venues, private estates, and barn weddings tend to be more accommodating, while churches and banquet halls may have restrictions.
Assign a Pet Handler
You’ll be busy on your wedding day, so it’s essential to have a trusted friend, family member, or professional pet handler dedicated to taking care of your pet. Their responsibilities should include:
- Arriving with the pet at the right time
- Keeping them calm and hydrated
- Escorting them when needed
- Taking them home or to a pet-friendly hotel if necessary
Consider Your Pet’s Personality
Some pets thrive in social settings, while others may feel anxious in large crowds. If your pet is easily stressed by noise, strangers, or unfamiliar environments, consider alternative ways to include them, such as featuring them in engagement photos, invitations, or wedding décor.
Dress Comfortably
While a dog in a tuxedo is adorable, comfort should come first. Avoid anything that’s too tight, restrictive, or has small parts that could be chewed off. A simple bow tie, floral collar, or lightweight bandana is usually best.
Have a Backup Plan
Even with the best planning, things can go sideways. Weather, unexpected stress, or last-minute venue restrictions could change your pet’s role. Have a plan B, whether it’s a designated quiet space for them to relax or an alternative way to incorporate their presence in your wedding.
Alternatives If Your Pet Can’t Attend
If your pet can’t be at the wedding physically, there are still plenty of ways to honour them:
- Feature them in your invitations, wedding website, or signage.
- Include a framed photo of them at the ceremony or reception.
- Wear custom cufflinks, a pin, or jewellery with their image or paw print.
- Have a cake topper or custom cookies in their likeness.
- Make a donation to a pet charity in their name.
Your wedding day is about celebrating love in all its forms, and that includes the love you have for your pet. Whether they walk down the aisle, greet guests at the reception, or are simply represented in small, meaningful ways, including them in your wedding will make the day even more special. At The Marry Men Wedding Officiants, we believe every love story deserves to be told—including the unconditional love shared between you and your furry best friend.
If you’re planning a pet-friendly wedding, we’d love to help craft a ceremony that reflects your love, your journey, and yes—even your pet’s role in your big day! Visit us on Instagram @themarrymen as well as our website www.themarrymen.ca for more helpful tips and ideas. Let’s make your wedding one for the books—paw prints and all!