
The Complete Guide to Obtaining Your Marriage License in Ontario by The Marry Men Wedding Officiants: What to Do, Where to Go, How to Apply, and How to Pick Up:
Congratulations, lovebirds! You’re on the exciting path to tying the knot in beautiful Ontario. One of the most crucial steps, and often the most overlooked until the last minute, is securing your marriage license. At The Marry Men Wedding Officiants, we believe in making this process as smooth and stress-free as possible. This comprehensive guide will walk you through everything you need to know about obtaining your Ontario marriage license, ensuring you’re fully prepared for your big day.
Why You Need a Marriage License in Ontario
Simply put, a marriage license is the legal document that authorizes your marriage ceremony to take place in Ontario. Without it, your union cannot be legally recognized. Think of it as your official permission slip to say “I do!” Your wedding officiant will require this document on your wedding day to legally perform your ceremony and subsequently register your marriage with the province.
What to Do: The Application Process
Getting your marriage license in Ontario is a relatively straightforward process, but it requires attention to detail. Here’s a breakdown of the steps:
- Download and Complete the Application Form: The first step is to obtain the Marriage Licence Application Form. You can usually find this form on your local city or town hall’s website (e.g., City of Mississauga, City of Toronto, etc.) or pick up a physical copy at their municipal office.
- Accuracy is Key: Fill out the form completely and accurately. Double-check all names, dates of birth, and addresses. Any discrepancies could lead to delays.
- Original Signatures: Both applicants must sign and date the form with original, ink signatures. Photocopies or scanned signatures are generally not accepted.
- Gather Your Identification Documents: Both you and your partner will need to provide two (2) pieces of original, valid government-issued identification.
- Photo ID: At least one piece of identification for each of you must include a current photo and signature.
- Matching Names: Ensure the names on both pieces of identification match perfectly. If you have middle names you wish to have on your marriage license, they must appear on both IDs.
- Acceptable ID Examples:
- Birth certificate (including any change of name certificates)
- Valid driver’s license
- Valid passport
- Canadian Citizenship card
- Record of immigrant landing
- Valid Ontario photo health card (note: while it’s government-issued, some offices might prefer a second photo ID)
- Valid Ontario Photo Card
- Permanent Resident Card
- Confirmation of Permanent Residency
- Indian Status Card
- Nexus Card
- Firearms/Possession License
- Canadian Armed Forces Identification
- Translated Documents: If any of your identification documents are in a language other than English or French, you will need to provide a translation from a certified translator.
- Proof of Divorce (If Applicable): If either you or your partner has been previously married and divorced, you’ll need to provide specific documentation:
- Divorced in Canada: You must provide the original or a court-certified copy of the final decree, final judgment, or certificate of divorce (photocopies are NOT accepted).
- Divorced Outside Canada: This process is more involved. You will need to obtain authorization from the Office of the Registrar General before you can get a marriage license. This typically involves submitting:
- The original or court-certified copy of the divorce decree or annulment (translated into English or French, if necessary).
- A legal opinion letter from an Ontario lawyer, addressed to both applicants, confirming the divorce would be recognized under Ontario law.
- A completed Marriage Licence Application Form.
- This process can take several weeks, so factor this into your timeline! Contact the Office of the Registrar General at 1-800-461-2156 for specific details.
- Age Requirements:
- You must be at least 16 years old to get married in Ontario.
- If you are 16 or 17 years old, you will need written consent from both of your parents. Contact the municipal office where you plan to apply to get the consent form.

Where to Go: Applying and Picking Up Your License
You can apply for and pick up your marriage license at any municipal office or city hall in Ontario. You do not have to apply in the city or town where you reside or where your wedding will take place. This offers flexibility, so you can choose a location that’s convenient for you.
- Appointment vs. Walk-in: Some municipal offices offer walk-in service, while others require you to book an appointment. It’s always best to check their website or call ahead to confirm their current procedures. Booking an appointment can save you time and ensure you’re seen promptly.
- Both Applicants Present: While it’s generally recommended that both applicants be present, some municipalities allow one person to submit the application as long as they have all the required documents and the signed application form for both parties. Always verify this with the specific municipal office beforehand.
- Cost: The fee for a marriage license in Ontario is typically around $160 – $165 (as of 2025), but this can vary slightly from one municipality to another. It’s a non-refundable fee. Payment can usually be made by cash, debit, or credit card (Visa, Mastercard, Amex).
- Pro Tip: Do search for some offices close by to your residence. You will find that some license offices are slightly cheaper than others, and every dollar counts when you are spending money on your wedding day!
How to Apply & Pick Up: The Day Of
When you go to the municipal office to apply for and pick up your license, be prepared with:
- Your completed and signed Marriage Licence Application Form.
- The required identification documents for both applicants.
- Any necessary divorce documents.
- The applicable fee.
The process usually involves reviewing your documents with a clerk, paying the fee, and then receiving your marriage license on the spot.
The Validity of Your Marriage License
Do get your marriage license within 90 days of your wedding date. An Ontario marriage license is only valid for 90 days (3 months) from the date of issue. This means you cannot apply too early! Aim to get it within the three-month window before your wedding.
How to Keep Your Marriage License Safe
This section is crucial, as your marriage license is a vital legal document. Here’s how to ensure its safety:
- Safe Storage: Store your marriage license in a secure, dry place, away from direct sunlight, extreme temperatures, and humidity. A fireproof safe or a safety deposit box is ideal. If those aren’t available, a sturdy binder or file folder stored in a safe place is a good alternative.
- Handle with Care: Avoid bending, folding, stapling, or writing on the license. Treat it like a passport or other important legal document.
- Designated Keeper: Assign a responsible person (wedding planner, venue supervisor, trusted family member, or wedding party member) to be in charge of the license on your wedding day. Make sure they know where it is and that they understand its importance.
- Transportation: When transporting the license, keep it in a protective sleeve or envelope to prevent damage.

DOS and DON’TS for Your Marriage License: A Critical Section
This is a crucial section, so please pay close attention! Your marriage license is a legal document and must be treated with care.
DOS:
- Do put your license in a very safe place. Treat it like a passport or a vital document.
- Do make certain that you have your license on site on your wedding date. Your officiant cannot legally perform your ceremony without it.
- Do give your license to your planner or venue supervisor, a dedicated family member, or a trusted member from your wedding party. Designate one responsible person to hold onto it and ensure it’s presented to your officiant.
- Do get your marriage license within 90 days of your wedding date. As mentioned, timing is key!
- Do search for some offices close by to your residence; you will find that some license offices are slightly cheaper than others, and every dollar counts when you are spending money on your wedding day. A few dollars saved is still a few dollars saved!
- Do know that the officiant is the only person that can do your paperwork. Your officiant will complete the necessary sections of the license after your ceremony.
- Do know that the officiant is the only person that can physically mail your license to the office in Thunder Bay. After your ceremony, your officiant is legally responsible for submitting your completed marriage license to the Office of the Registrar General.
DON’TS:
- Do not make ANY notes on your license. This includes writing down vows, names, or anything else.
- Do not place tape, staples, or Post-it notes on your license. This can lift off ink, especially if it’s sitting with sticky notes on it for a few weeks, potentially invalidating the document.
- Do not bend, fold, or damage your license. Keep it flat and pristine.
After the Ceremony: The Officiant’s Role
Once your beautiful ceremony is complete, your Marry Men Wedding Officiant will take care of the final, critical step: registering your marriage.
- Your officiant will complete the necessary sections of the marriage license, including their signature and the signatures of your two witnesses.
- They are then legally obligated to send the completed and signed marriage license to the Office of the Registrar General in Thunder Bay, Ontario.
- The mailing address is: Office of the Registrar General P.O. Box 4600 189 Red River Road Thunder Bay, ON P7B 6L8
- Your officiant will typically send it within 48 hours of your ceremony.
Obtaining Your Marriage Certificate
The marriage license allows you to get married; the marriage certificate is the official proof that you ARE married. After your officiant mails your license to Thunder Bay and it’s registered, you can then apply for your marriage certificate. This usually takes several weeks (8-12 weeks is common, but can vary). You’ll need this certificate for things like changing your name, updating government IDs, and for many other legal purposes.
Final Thoughts from The Marry Men Wedding Officiants
Navigating the legalities of marriage can seem daunting, but with this guide and the support of your Marry Men Wedding Officiant, you’ll sail through it with ease. We’re here to ensure your special day is not only memorable but also legally sound. By following these steps and adhering to the crucial “Dos and Don’ts,” you can relax and focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love and beginning your incredible journey as a married couple. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to us or your local municipal office. Happy planning!
About The Marry Men Wedding Officiants
At The Marry Men Wedding Officiants, we believe every love story deserves a beautiful and unforgettable ceremony. Based in Mississauga, Ontario and servicing all GTA locations and beyond, Reverend Jason and Reverend Michael are passionate and dedicated to crafting personalized and heartfelt wedding experiences that reflect your unique bond. Whether you envision a grand celebration or an intimate elopement, we work closely with you to create a ceremony that is authentic, engaging, and perfectly you. We handle all the legal details with precision, allowing you to focus on the joy of your commitment.
Learn more and connect with us:
- Website: www.themarrymen.ca
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